Dating a borderline personality woman
In a nutshell these women (labeled as BPD or cluster B's will be the best you ever had in bed, will satisfy your ego in a way that no other woman will ever have, and provide such a high for you at the beginning of a relationship most normal women you meet will be boring to you.Below are some signs you are dating a borderline, anyone who is experienced in dating one of these is free to add to the list.You know the bubble is going to pop; the fun is in never knowing when or why.The central issue is that BPD is based around feelings.On the other, more chilling hand, a constant feed of experiences means interpretations of illness can be easily warped.Take Urban Outfitters’ “depression T-shirt,”or the well-documented and unconquerable pro-anorexia websites and Tumblr blogs as particularly saddening examples.- all of her exes are *******s or abusive, she's had numerous burnout relationships but the breakup NEVER had anything to do with her Roll Eyes - can't hold down jobs ...usually it's their boss was trying to get in their pants or some bull**** - likes pain from tattoos,piercings in weird places, kinky sex, etc - rebound relationships- there is always another guy and her bed never gets cold. Sometimes just goes cold overnight - extremely sensitive, starts crying over bull****..flips out when you don't text her back in time really scared of abandonment - poor relationship with her mother or an abusive mother - they see ghosts, believe in magic, etc - usually have some sort of music running through their head *always pick 4 crew* *conservative crew* *son or coathanger crew* *women shouldn't be allowed to vote crew* *always tells the truth even if it hurts crew* Some people cry and some people die by the wicked ways of love But I'll just keep on rolling along with the grace of the Lord above No empathy, no feeling, empty at the core of their personality/soul Manipulative, lying, triangulates relationships Makes you feel like the king n then devalues you, causes you to wonder where that person went that you knew aka "splitting" A lot a girls do it several times in the initial few days/weeks to see how far you will go; they do it even to the handsome guys they are interested in.This is called "playing hard to get." She wants men to think that she is not easily impressionable and she thinks it makes her more desirable to him, while at the same time fails to realize that she is on a very thin line and she could lose him forever and settle for someone less. A lot a girls do it several times in the initial few days/weeks to see how far you will go; they do it even to the handsome guys they are interested in. What I'm talking about is pushing away stemming from not being able to get close to people, having to do with being afraid and self worth. All the sudden drama is being stirred up, fighting, chaos, etc. youre left thinking "wtf happened to the person I used to know." Then (she's afraid of abandonment) she's nice, kind, sweet, to pull you back and you get a glimmer of hope, then the cycle repeats itself.
And if there’s any condition that really drives this home, it’s Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), which takes the shittiest parts of being mentally unwell and runs a marathon with them.
Clearview Women’s Center is a residential treatment program that specializes in Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).
The center, located in Venice Beach, Calif., is the premier program on the West Coast for BPD treatment. Relationships require work, compromise, communication, empathy, and understanding.
This is called "playing hard to get." She wants men to think that she is not easily impressionable and she thinks it makes her more desirable to him, while at the same time fails to realize that she is on a very thin line and she could lose him forever and settle for someone less. One thing people have to realize is there is a specific diagnostic criteria these people have to fit into. Idk but she has a lot of borderline features , which is just as bad. These women treat their new boyfriends like objects and literally won't shut the **** up when they first meet you to their friends talking about this amazing guy she met. They know how to manipulate the **** out of guys and that's usually by stroking their ego.
What kind of guys get the most enjoyment from this?